As the year draws to a close, we at The Caregivers Counsel want to extend our heartfelt wishes for a joyful holiday season to you and your loved ones. This time of year, is a special opportunity to reflect on the moments that shaped us, the connections that sustained us, and the hope that carries us forward.
In this newsletter, we are excited to share updates about our journey. We are grateful for growth and finding light even in challenging times. Always remember your work and dedication truly make a difference.
Thank you for being a part of our community. Here is to a season filled with warmth, peace, and the promise of new beginnings.
Warm wishes,
Dr. Mariaan Cronje
Founder, The Caregivers Counsel
For it is in giving that we receive
R.I.P. VLEKKIE – WHEN MOVING HOUSE DOES NOT ALLOWS PETS
We must move mum to a new retirement home in early December. Every choice is better, except for her pet cat Vlekkie. It is better to be close to family and get medical care, but unfortunately there cannot be any pets. It was sad day when we had to put Vlekkie to sleep at the vet’s office.
For many elders, a beloved pet is more than just a companion—it is a source of unconditional love, comfort, and purpose. Pets bring joy to everyday life, offering solace in moments of loneliness and encouraging their owners to stay active and engaged. However, when circumstances such as a move to a care facility arise, the heartbreaking reality is that pets often cannot accompany their owners. The decision to part ways or, in some cases, put the pet to sleep can be profoundly sorrowful, leaving a deep sense of loss and grief. This painful separation underscores the vital role pets play in the emotional well-being of their owners and the need for compassionate solutions to support both elders and their furry companions.
THE EFFECT ON MOVING HOUSE FOR THE ELDERLY
Moving can be deeply unsettling for the elderly, as it often means leaving behind a familiar environment, cherished memories, and a sense of independence. This transition can lead to feelings of loss, anxiety, and disorientation, impacting both emotional and physical well-being. Ensuring support and understanding during this time is essential to help ease the adjustment and maintain their sense of dignity and security.
THE IMPORTANCE OF SELF-CARE
Self-care is essential for family and home-based caregivers, as the demands of caregiving can take a significant toll on both emotional and physical well-being. While prioritizing the needs of loved ones is natural, neglecting personal care can lead to burnout, stress, and health issues, reducing the ability to provide quality care. Taking time for rest, hobbies, and social connections is not selfish—it is necessary. When caregivers prioritize their own well-being, they are better equipped to handle challenges with patience and resilience, ensuring a healthier and more balanced approach to caregiving for everyone involved.
Enjoy time with a special friend
Spending a morning doing crafts with a special friend is a wonderful way to unwind and share laughter. Creative activities not only help to relieve stress by allowing you to focus on the joy of making something with your hands, but they also foster deeper connections. Working side by side, sharing ideas, and celebrating each other’s creations strengthens bonds and creates meaningful memories. It is a simple yet powerful way to nurture your mental well-being while building a relationship rooted in fun and togetherness.
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